Trust me; I am guilty of choosing work over myself. I have literally been in the car on my way to the gym and have gotten a message and asked to help with something for work and have chosen to turn around and help rather than say I can't or ask if I can do it after my workout.
Self-care is not my forte, but it is a commitment I made to myself. I promised I would take care of myself, even if it is just doing little things like stretching before bed or eating at an actual table at least once a day.
We made a list of actual, realistic ways to take care of yourself with that in mind. We are talking about little things that don’t cost much and don’t take a ton of time. But in the end, will be beneficial for your physical and mental well-being.
Realistic Self-Care Ideas to Pamper Yourself:
Pampering yourself doesn’t mean you need high-end furs or cashmere sweaters it can be something small, a luxury that is new to you and feels high-end but doesn’t hurt your wallet. This is a list of things I have tried or have used regularly.- ETTC Premium Membership - We have all done it. It is Sunday night, and we have spent the day watching Netflix. Now we have to face the fact that school is tomorrow and we didn't plan anything. That's okay because you're an ETTC Premium Member, and you can simply log in and have access to the thousands of resources (some of them are even digital) in our shop. So now, your Sunday night still belongs to you, and you don't have to worry about what you will teach during your math block tomorrow.
- Silk Pillowcase - Silk pillowcases feel so expensive and comfortable. Not to mention if you have long hair, the silk helps to reduce frizz.
- Eye Mask - Honestly, every time I put one of these on, I feel like a million bucks. It makes 10-minute naps possible.
- Pillow Spray - I love fragrance, and something like pillow spray makes something mundane like going to bed something exciting.
- Face Spray - I have tried a lot of face sprays and setting sprays, and this one is the best and the most cost-effective one I have found. It is gentle on the skin but has a refreshing feeling. It's like cucumber eye masks for the on-the-go teacher.
- Massage Wand - Massages are expensive. This is simply the DIY version of a hotel spa massage.
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Facial Face Mask -I am a beginner in the world of face masks. I have found that the process of doing a face mask is a little weird for me, but it forces me to sit down and do nothing for 10-15 minutes, and I appreciate that more than the mask itself, but some people swear by face mask, so I included them here.
- Jade or Rose Quartz Roller - I was skeptical when I got my first Gua Sha but combined with a jade roller and my face moisturizer; it is a very relaxing process that forces me to spend some time on myself before going to bed.
- Comfy Slippers - Wear comfy slippers while planning or prepping and it will be like walking on a cloud.
- Essential Oils Diffuser - It is proven that things like lavender and eucalyptus are relaxing, add in the color-changing option on the diffuser, and you have the ambiance to pair with your new self-care routines.
- Essential Oils - I love essential oils because they are versatile. They can be used to relax, as a sleep aid, pain relief, and so much more.
- Weighted Blanket - I have trouble sleeping. My weighted blanket has been a huge difference-maker in dealing with my sleep anxiety.
- Editable Sub Plans - TThis is a great way to pamper yourself by simply preparing ahead of time. If you aren't feeling well or need a mental health day, you know you can fall back on your Sub Plans without having to stress. Or, if you made it to school and then realized you just weren't feeling your best, simply refer to your Sub Plans and use the lessons you already have prepped.
Realistic Self-Care Ideas for Mindfulness Routines:
Google defines mindfulness as a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment while calmly acknowledging and accepting one’s feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, using a therapeutic technique. With that in mind, here are some ideas for mindfulness that do not feel phony.
- Journaling: Set a goal; write for 5 minutes or write one whole page in a way you feel comfortable. A letter to your future self, a note to your past self, a loved one, or reflect on the day passed or the day ahead. It doesn’t have to be good or grammatically correct; it just needs to happen.
- Stretching: Yup, just good old-fashioned touch your toes and count to ten kinds of stretching.
- Deep Breathes: 10 deep breathes in and out. It doesn’t have to be a big thing, and you don’t need to be in a quiet place or stop what you are doing. Simply focus on your breathing for ten breaths and then move on with your day.
- Pick-up after yourself: I know you probably think this is crazy, but organizing has a therapeutic quality. One day spend 5-10 minutes cleaning your desk, then a drawer, and then a shelf. Take it slow like that, one shelf at a time, and do that every day for a week. The time it takes you to focus on cleaning off that one shelf will give you a chance to withdraw from everything else.
- Listen to music: Put on headphones, park your car, or ask Alexa to play a song. One song and sit down and listen to the entire thing. Pick something to focus on, whether it is the lyrics or the guitar or whichever element you prefer, but for those 3 minutes, allow your mind to take a break from the stresses of the day and listen to music.
- Reflect: If it’s the last thing you do before you go to bed or while on your drive from work, reflect on the day. What did you accomplish, what are you proud of, and what went well? Focus on the positive and train your mind to look at things just a little less cynically.
- Where the Primary Things are Podcast: Thinking about work while you are trying to relax may not seem like the ideal way to spend your 'me time,' but truly, this podcast is great because it not only talks about teacher tips and tricks, but it also spends time recognizing the challenges teachers face outside of the classroom. It goes over ways you can combat those challenges, focuses on the teacher community, and reminds us that we are not alone.
Realistic Self-Care Ideas that Involve Waking Up Earlier:

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Drink your coffee while it’s still hot:
- Yup, you read that right. Your hot coffee is supposed to be hot. Like actually hot, not just warm, but hot. Wake up 5 minutes earlier. Make your coffee, sit down on the porch, at your kitchen table, on the floor, and pet your dog while drinking your FRESH, HOT coffee.
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Actually, eat breakfast:
- Even if you eat a granola bar, sit down at the kitchen table and enjoy it.
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Skincare routine:
- Using whatever products pair best with your skin, create a pattern for yourself.
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Read (something you enjoy, not the news):
- Download a book on your phone, or read a physical book. Try to avoid the news and social media but make sure you are reading something you enjoy. Set a timer for 10 minutes and allow yourself to enjoy those 10 minutes.

